Tag Archive | "intimacy"

What Do You Feel During Sex

Sunday, November 18, 2012

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What Do You Feel During Sex

For most people, it’s fair to say that one of the goals of sexual encounters is to experience physical pleasure. Of course, there are many different reasons that people choose to have sex – to stroke your ego, to feel attractive to your partner, to feel love and/or accepted, to make up after a fight, [...]

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Self Soothing

Monday, January 10, 2011

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Self Soothing

Early in life, we count on our caregivers to soothe us and keep us comfortable. We cry, and they check to see if we need food, cleaning, a blanket, burping, etc. Then hopefully, they provide us what we need and once again, we feel comfortable. We also look to our caregivers to assure us that [...]

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Faking Orgasm

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

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Faking Orgasm

Some people call it the “little white lie in bed” that they do once in a blue moon.  Others use it as a standard operating procedure.  Either way, it seems that everybody’s on the lookout for it.  Guys want to figure out if their woman is faking orgasms (do they really want to know?) and [...]

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Yes, but can you f_%#?

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

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Yes, but can you f_%#?

Maybe it’s the way that religion and society shape our ideas about sex?  Maybe it’s our discomfort with acknowledging the intersection of sex and aggression?  Maybe it’s our desire to keep an idealized and romanticized view of sex?  But the truth is that most couples don’t really f_%#.  If, however, you are going to enjoy [...]

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Simultaneous Orgasms

Thursday, April 22, 2010

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In some people’s vision of idealized sex, they strive for simultaneous orgasms, where both partners come at the same time. Perhaps it’s an attempt at a shared experience. Perhaps it is seen as the culmination of one’s sexual activities coming to it’s logical climax. For others, it may be their goal in a very performance-based [...]

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